Pickleball Coaching

Ask First, Coach! Good questions create better learners

In pickleball coaching, it’s easy to fall into the trap of giving all the answers. But if you want your players to truly understand the game, start by asking questions. The right question at the right time can spark reflection, build awareness, and deepen learning—without you needing to explain everything.

Why Coaching With Questions Works

When players think through their actions and decisions, they’re more likely to remember what they’ve learned and apply it in games.

Here’s what happens when you coach with questions:

  • Better Understanding – Players connect the dots themselves, which strengthens learning.

  • Increased Engagement – Asking questions keeps players mentally active and invested in their progress.

  • Stronger Player Ownership – Players take more responsibility for their development when they’re part of the conversation.

How to Use Questions Effectively

You don’t need a full-on interview. Just one or two simple questions can make a big difference.

Be Curious, Not Critical
After a rep, try:
“What did you notice?”
“Where were you aiming?”
“What felt different that time?”

These open the door for self-assessment instead of top-down instruction.

Guide the Focus
If a player hits a great shot, ask:
“What do you think made that one work?”
This helps them identify the key elements—and repeat them.

Keep It Positive
Even after a mistake, frame your questions to encourage curiosity, not judgment:
“What would you try differently next time?”

Final Thoughts

Telling players what to do is fast. But helping them figure it out for themselves is powerful. When you ask good questions, you’re not just building skills—you’re building smart, self-aware players.

Next time you're about to give an answer, try asking a question instead. You might be surprised what your players come up with.